Something that has never happened to me in my adult life happened yesterday. Over the last several years, I have been a regular visitor to a certain right-wing blog. The blog administrator has been fair and although I don't agree with 95% of what he believes, I have respected him. I have taken my fair share of abuse and name calling from folks for my comments, but I have largely enjoyed the interaction.
Two days ago, the adminstrator posted a joke blog entry about some link between President Obama and Bigfoot. I didn't find it particularly funny, but I was not going to post on it.
Out of the blue, this regular to the blog, "Mike," posted up the following:
"Actually, I have learned from other sources that it is Rob's mother. And she is actually NOT wearing a custome, but naked in the photo."The rush of shock and anger at this comment filled me immediately. For those who know me and who knew my mom, and the love I had for her in life (and still have for her in death), you can imagine what I felt and what I would have done if Mike had said it to my face.
Even as I burn with rage about the comment itself, what I found even more remarkable was the number of other folks who laughed and joined in support of Mike's comment. It was like a pack of middle school kids - not normal adult behavior. I'm not sure what it is with these people, but they lack basic moral values and decency. However, all that said, what I find disappointing is that there are other regulars to the blog, including the administrator, who have sat silent. I take that silence to mean that they accept Mike's comment and support it.
Mike has been an idiot for years, and even though his comment crossed a new line of childishness and bad taste it is not altogether surprising. But, the fact that no one took Mike to task for it - even after I commented on it - has been surprising. I would never allow something like that to be said about anyone's mother in my presence - online or otherwise - without comment and condemnation. I suppose my Mom raised me better than that.
Here is a
link to the blog post - you can read the comments. Don't bother commenting on that blog post - the people who laughed have no shame or moral character. All they will do is laugh and make fun of you. Instead, just feel sorry for them and pray for them to learn the error of their ways.